Dr Charles Stanley - Library 3.0 - I Am A Ruby Network!2024-03-28T11:39:48Zhttps://iamaruby.com/forum/topics/feed/category/Dr+Charles+StanleyDr, Charles Stanley, 1-13-12(Seeking God's Will.)https://iamaruby.com/forum/topics/dr-charles-stanley-1-13-122012-01-13T12:56:30.000Z2012-01-13T12:56:30.000ZI Am A Ruby Networkhttps://iamaruby.com/members/iamarubynet<div><p><img src="http://media.salemwebnetwork.com/cms/CW/Publication-Images/Devotionals/1393-InTouchBanner2011.jpg" alt="1393-InTouchBanner2011.jpg" /></p>
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<p><strong>January 13</strong></p>
<p><strong>Seeking God's Will</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://www.biblestudytools.com/search/?t=nas&q=1jo+5:14-15">1 John 5:14-15</a></p>
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<p>Parents train their children to do many tasks—from knowing which clothes match to handling money. Perhaps the most important skill we can teach is how to follow God’s direction.</p>
<p>We are blessed that our omniscient and mighty Father is willing to make His way known to us. He wants to reveal exactly what to do in every situation. In fact, He promises this: “I will instruct you and teach you in the way which you should go; I will counsel you with My eye upon you” (Ps. 32:8). Let’s explore how to discern God’s will at each crossroad of life.</p>
<p>The first step is to make sure that we have repented of all sin. Listening to God while holding onto iniquity in our heart is like using a foggy and unreadable compass. After confessing and repenting, we can ask for direction.</p>
<p>Next, we should read Scripture regularly with a seeking, open heart. The Bible is like a lamp on a dark path (Ps. 119:105). The last step involves God’s indwelling Holy Spirit—the wonderful gift that the heavenly Father has given each of His children. The Spirit provides truth and guidance as we read the Word and pray. We should listen patiently for His leading, which is often communicated quietly to our hearts as we spend time with Him.</p>
<p>When asking the Lord to reveal His will, we shouldn’t expect instant answers. The discipline of waiting builds character, and besides, rushing the process may lead to a path that misses God’s best. Take the time to seek Jesus’ plan for your life, remembering He'll provide all you need to follow Him.</p>
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<p></p></div>Dr. Charles Stanley-6-2-11https://iamaruby.com/forum/topics/dr-charles-stanley62112011-06-02T11:18:01.000Z2011-06-02T11:18:01.000ZI Am A Ruby Networkhttps://iamaruby.com/members/iamarubynet<div>June 2
God’s Compass for the Heart and Mind
Proverbs 3:7-12
Yesterday we discussed the importance of depending on the Word of God as our compass throughout life. Following the Lord’s directions will change behavior and challenge our thinking, attitudes, and desires. He leads us to think differently about ourselves, our values, and and even the difficulties facing us.
We naturally want to determine our own course in life.It seems like the only logical way to get where we want to go. But being wise in our own eyes is pride. To combat this tendency, the Lord instructs us to fear Him and turn away from evil (v. 7). This “fear” is not a horrified dread of the Father, but an attitude of respect that motivates us to obey Him for both our good and His glory.
We naturally want to keep our money for ourselves. A desire for a better lifestyle or fear of not having enough leads us to hang onto everything we get. But our compass directs us to honor God by giving Him the first part of all we have, trusting Him to provide for our needs (vv. 9-10).
We naturally hate God’s discipline. His painful reproofs seem to prove that He doesn’t care about us. But our heavenly Father says His discipline is the evidence that confirms His love and delight in us as His children (vv. 11-12).
Sometimes in our desire to follow the Lord, we focus on obedient actions—doing what He says—but miss His directions concerning our attitudes and thought patterns. To stay on God’s path for our lives, we must make course corrections not only in our behavior but also in our hearts and minds.</div>DR. CHARLES STANLEY-5-16-11https://iamaruby.com/forum/topics/dr-charles-stanley516112011-05-16T16:24:48.000Z2011-05-16T16:24:48.000ZI Am A Ruby Networkhttps://iamaruby.com/members/iamarubynet<div>May 16
The Grace of Giving
2 Corinthians 8:1-7
Today we live under a new covenant established by God through the shed blood of His Son Jesus (Heb. 9:15). Based on what Christ did, Romans 12:1 tells us to present ourselves “as a living and holy sacrifice, [which is] acceptable” to the Lord. If you are a child of God, all of your abilities, time, and money belong to Him.
The principle of sacrificial living can be seen in the early church. Those new believers eagerly sold their possessions and property to meet the needs around them (Acts 2:45). In response to their generosity, God blessed them with glad hearts, favor from the people, and increasing numbers.
Macedonian churches also understood the priority of giving. Even though the believers there were extremely poor, they begged for the opportunity to help financially. Scripture says they excelled at the “grace of giving” (v. 7 niv).
Under Old Testament law, God required a tithe (a tenth of one’s animals and crops) to support the temple (Lev. 27:30-32). When the nation drifted away from this practice, the Lord sent Malachi to warn them of the consequences for disobeying. By not giving their tithe, they were robbing God of what was rightfully His (Mal. 3:8). We certainly don’t want to be guilty of withholding the Lord’s money from Him.
Having appointed us to be His stewards and entrusted us with resources, God expects us to give generously. Jesus praised the impoverished widow in the temple for her sacrificial giving (Mark 12:41-44). When we trust the Lord with our finances as thewidow did, we’ll excel at the grace of giving.</div>DR.CHARLES STANLEY-5-14-11https://iamaruby.com/forum/topics/drcharles-stanley514112011-05-14T14:00:38.000Z2011-05-14T14:00:38.000ZI Am A Ruby Networkhttps://iamaruby.com/members/iamarubynet<div>Selfish Christianity
John 6:22-27
Which interests you more—who Jesus is or what He can do for you? I’m afraid that too many of us are more concerned about what He can give us than we are about getting to know who He is.
But this is nothing new—Jesus had this problem when He walked on earth. The crowds often sought Him out for what He could do for them. Even though their needs were quite often legitimate, Christ knew their motives.
There is a fine line between selfishly trying to use the Lord to get what we want and humbly coming to Him with our needs and struggles. Some of the issues we bring to Him are so pressing and urgent in our minds that our desire for Him to take action in the way we want becomes greater than our willingness to submit to His will. At times, what we call “faith” is really a demanding spirit.
We must remember that our needs will come to an end, but Jesus Christ will remain forever. If our prayers have dealt only with presenting our requests to the Lord, we’ve missed a great opportunity to get to know the One with whom we’ll spend eternity. Let’s invest time in pursuing intimacy with Christ. Then we can enjoy the benefits of that relationship forever.
How much of your communion with God is devoted to your needs—even legitimate ones? Are you spending any time getting to know the Lord? Although God delights in our prayers and tells us to pray about everything, He also wants us to come to Him just because we enjoy being with Him.</div>DR.CHARLES STANLEY-5-12-11https://iamaruby.com/forum/topics/drcharles-stanley512112011-05-12T15:46:20.000Z2011-05-12T15:46:20.000ZI Am A Ruby Networkhttps://iamaruby.com/members/iamarubynet<div>May 12
The Comfortable Church
Matthew 28:16-20
I think it’s fairly evident that the society we live in is very self-centered, and this same characteristic can be present in a church. Whenever a local body of believers develops an inward focus, its fruitfulness in ministry begins to decrease, and each member’s Christian walk is hindered.
Many believers want their church to be cozy and comfortable. They come to listen to a nice sermon, fellowship with friends, and have their needs met. But Godnever intended for the gathering of His people to be like a country club; He calls us to join an army that will bring the gospel into enemy territory.
An effective church—one that poses a real threat to the Enemy—is a body of discipled people who have been taught the truth of Scripture, trained for service, and helped to mature spiritually. But all this is accomplished for the purpose of going out into the world, not for becoming a self-contained sanctuary of Christian comfort.
The urgency of the Lord’s command and the desperate condition of humanity should motivate us to leave the safety of our Christian fellowships and deliver the message of salvation through Jesus. To avoid this responsibility is to miss the Father’s plan for your life and the opportunity to help build His kingdom.
None of us want to waste time or energy on trivial things and thereby miss the exciting fulfillment of God’s will. He has called us, not to a life of comfortable tradition, but to an adventure of obedience. Answer His call—you’ll help fill His kingdom with people from every tribe and nation.</div>IN TOUCH WITH DR.CHARLES STANLEY-4-19-11https://iamaruby.com/forum/topics/in-touch-with-drcharles-4362011-04-19T10:13:05.000Z2011-04-19T10:13:05.000ZI Am A Ruby Networkhttps://iamaruby.com/members/iamarubynet<div>April 19
Anointed for Burial
John 12:1-8
Imagine this scene. A woman walks into the annual church rummage sale with a beautiful collection of designer clothes worth thousands of dollars. She says, “I want to give this clothing to the Lord.” Then, as people nod in agreement, she drops the items on the floor and sets fire to them.
You would probably think, What a waste! That’s how the disciples reacted when Mary of Bethany anointed Jesus’ feet with an entire bottle of perfume. For almost three years, the disciples had lived on the donations of wealthy women and other generous people. And this particular bottle was worth about a year’s wages for a rural worker. Proceeds from its sale could have supplied the needs of Christ and His followers for weeks.
Judas spoke up, criticizing the apparent waste, and the other disciples joined in scolding Mary. But her liberal use of the fragrance wasn’t a mistake. Jesus explained, “When she poured this perfume on My body, she did it to prepare Me forburial” (Matt. 26:12). By using the entire jar at once, Mary released an aroma so overpowering that it filled the whole house (John 12:3). Every breath the guests took reminded them of her extravagant, seemingly imprudent gift.
From Mary’s day until now, the call of God has always inspired His followers to act in ways that others don’t understand. In doing so, we release the fragrance of Christ to everyone we encounter (2 Cor. 2:15). What has God called you to do as an expression of your devotion and love for Him?</div>IN TOUCH WITH DR. CHARLES STANLEY-4-4-11https://iamaruby.com/forum/topics/in-touch-with-dr-charles-72011-04-04T15:21:03.000Z2011-04-04T15:21:03.000ZI Am A Ruby Networkhttps://iamaruby.com/members/iamarubynet<div>March 4
God Is In Control
Psalm 103:19-22
Have you ever wondered whether you are truly saved? Many people struggle with this question, but my goal is for you to experience assurance.
Salvation describes what happens when God rescues us from the guilt and penalty of sin and brings us into a relationship with Himself. Jesus said that He is the only way to the Father (John 14:6); we deservedeternal separation from God because of our sin, but Christ took our penalty by dying in our place. When we trust Him as Savior and commit our lives to follow Him, we are saved.
Questions arise when believers sin and wonder if they could still be in good standing with God. Others wonder whether they ever truly surrendered their lives and believed or just went through the motions.
Let me assure you: the Bible is clear that salvation is not dependent upon any work we do (Eph. 2:8-9). In fact, it is the Holy Spirit who convicts us of our need in the first place (John 16:8). Our redemption is a free gift that God gives to anyone who acknowledges Jesus as Lord and Savior.
Once we are saved, there is nothing that can eternally separate us from Him. Our heavenly Father adopts us, and though we can choose to sin and be out of fellowship with Him, our salvation is always secure.
Do you struggle with doubt regarding your salvation? You are not alone. God wants His children to experience confidence in this regard. Through the Holy Spirit, we gain the desire and understanding that enable our redemption. Then God Himself saves. We are simply to accept and follow Him.</div>IN TOUCH WITH DR. CHARLES STANLEY-3-28-11https://iamaruby.com/forum/topics/in-touch-with-dr-charles-62011-03-28T11:17:55.000Z2011-03-28T11:17:55.000ZI Am A Ruby Networkhttps://iamaruby.com/members/iamarubynet<div>March 28
God’s Financial Best
Malachi 3:7-18
The multitude of Bible verses that speak about money prove that God is very interested in our personal finances. Because this is such an essential element of our lives, He uses money to train us in stewardship, teach us self-control, and test our obedience to Him.
Perhaps the greatest area of the Lord’s testing involves our willingness to give. Old Testament law commanded financial contributions for upkeep of the temple and support of the Levitesserving there. And the New Testament tells believers to regularly set apart a portion of their income for kingdom work (1 Cor. 16:2).
However, fears and excuses sometimes keep us from faithfully carrying out this God-given responsibility. After all, giving away the money we need to pay our bills seems foolish. But the Lord promises overflowing blessings to those who obey Him in this matter. In fact, He invites us to test Him in this to see if He will prove faithful (Mal. 3:10).
By neglecting our responsibility to give to the Lord, we commit four sins. We express unbelief in His integrity and power, ingratitude for all He’s given us, and rebellion against His commands. And since the first part of our income belongs to Him, withholding it amounts to robbing God.
Don’t think that your financial situation will somehow prove too much for God and cause Him to break His promise. The trustworthiness of His Word depends on His character and omnipotence and is unaffected by your monetary challenges. Trust Him and give generously.</div>IN TOUCH WITH DR.CHARLES STANLEY-3-23-11https://iamaruby.com/forum/topics/in-touch-with-drcharles-1092011-03-23T13:49:22.000Z2011-03-23T13:49:22.000ZI Am A Ruby Networkhttps://iamaruby.com/members/iamarubynet<div>March 23
The Priority of Relationship
Revelation 2:1-7
Ephesuswas the home of a tremendous ministry. Despite harsh persecution, the church planted by Paul endured opposition, spread the gospel, and was quick to challenge false prophets. But 30 years after the apostle left, John’s revelation included a stern warning for those believers.
Imagine how the words of Revelation 2 must have struck the Ephesians when they read them. After complimenting their service to the gospel, Christ said, “But I have this against you . . .” That phrase was no doubt extremely disconcerting. The Lord warned them that they had left their first love. In other words, all of their work was being done with wrong motives.
Christ called the Ephesians to remember their love for Him and their delight in His salvation. Service is no substitute for an intimate relationship, but modern believers continue to fall into this subtle trap. The commendable things that we do count for nothing unless they stem from a vibrant personal connection with God. Our work can’t be effective or fruitful unless He is in it.
In fact, God is more interested in you and your personal relationship with Him than in a thousand lifetimes of good works. He desires to be the satisfaction and delight of His children so that their service is a result of loving devotion.
There are plenty of wrong reasons to labor for the kingdom. However, God is satisfied only with service motivated by love for Him. He wants those with selfish intentions to return to their first love. In that way, hearts and minds can be renewed, and service to the Lord will be more fruitful.</div>IN TOUCH WITH DR. CHARLES STANLEY-3-21-11https://iamaruby.com/forum/topics/in-touch-with-dr-charles-52011-03-21T11:27:57.000Z2011-03-21T11:27:57.000ZI Am A Ruby Networkhttps://iamaruby.com/members/iamarubynet<div>March 21
The Measure of Our Love
John 14:15-24
As I studied today’s verses from John’s gospel, I felt convicted about falling short of Jesus’ expectations. It’s easy to say, “Lord, I adore You,” but there have been times when I’ve used those words while resisting something He was trying to impress upon my heart. The old adage is true: actions do speak louder than words.
The measure of our love is obedience to God’s commands and principles. Following His instructions is so important that Jesus stressed the point three times in today’s Bible passage (vv. 15, 21, 23). This wasn’t a new concept for the disciples either. They would have been familiar with the scriptural connection between love and obedience (Neh. 1:5; Dan. 9:4). In fact, God has always emphasized that the way to show our devotion is by doing what He says (Deut. 8:11; 10:12; 13:3-4).
I could preach a thousand sermons without loving God. Halfhearted commitment can look pretty good to others, but the Lord knows the difference. Believers may lift their hands in worship, serve vigorously, support missionaries, and even say all the right words. But unless we’re following God’s commands from His holy Word, the most we’re showing Him is lukewarm affection. Works don’t prove anything. Loving the Lord means obeying Him.
What I’m about to say might sting: if you do not obey the Word, you do not love God. The Lord told Joshua to meditate on Scripture day and night (Josh. 1:8). I’m in the Bible every day because that is the only way to stay faithful and show the Father my love.</div>IN TOUCH WITH DR.CHARLES STANLEY-3-18-11https://iamaruby.com/forum/topics/in-touch-with-drcharles-2482011-03-18T11:36:15.000Z2011-03-18T11:36:15.000ZI Am A Ruby Networkhttps://iamaruby.com/members/iamarubynet<div>March 18
Pursuing Wisdom
Proverb 4:5-10
We live in the “Information Age,” where news pops up on cell phones and college can be attended online. But I’ve noticed that while there is a lot of knowledge floating around, there isn’t much wisdom. Godly wisdom is the capacity to see things from the Lord’s viewpoint and respond according to scriptural principles. You can’t instantly download that ability, but you can acquire it gradually over time.
In God’s opinion, the most valuable treasure to be had is wisdom (Prov. 8:11). Believers need His perspective and His principles to live the Christian life—that’s why acquiring wisdom is not a suggestion but a command (4:5).
Think back to stories about “Gold Fever” during the 19th-century gold rush. People risked their lives in a single-minded quest for riches. Wisdom is worth so much more than a vein of precious metal. In comparing the two, the Lord calls us to passionately pursue godly knowledge and discernment.
Proverbs 8:17 personifies wisdom, who says, “I love those who love me; and those who diligently seek me will find me.” God will see to it that believers who pursue wisdom acquire it. Moreover, when the desire of our heart is something with lasting value, we receive a bonus—knowledge, prudence, and discretion (Prov. 8:12).
The wisest man of the Bible, King Solomon, wrote that the beginning of wisdom was to acquire it (Prov. 4:7). Determine in your heart to pursue this great treasure. As you study the Word, seek the Lord’s will, and observe His principles in action, God will pour wisdom into your mind and spirit.</div>IN TOUCH WITH DR.CHARLES STANLEY-3-9-11https://iamaruby.com/forum/topics/in-touch-with-drcharles-2822011-03-09T12:51:07.000Z2011-03-09T12:51:07.000ZI Am A Ruby Networkhttps://iamaruby.com/members/iamarubynet<div>March 9
My Assurance: God Is In Control
Jeremiah 32:17
During one of the most trying seasons of my life, I would sit by the fire with a dear friend and pour out my heart. Since this man was a good listener, he could sense when I felt discouraged, and he would remind me that God is in control. This truth became an anchor in my life; no matter how much the adversity intensified,I found solace in knowing that my heavenlyFather is sovereign.
The Lord has supreme and absolute rule, control, and authority over the universe and everything in it. The Scriptures state that there is “one God and Father of all who is over all and through all and in all” (Eph. 4:6).
Consider the assurances that this truth provides for believers. First, if God created everything and has complete power over all, then nothing can happen apart from His direction and permission. Second, we know from the Bible that He is intimately involved in our personal lives and cares about the details of each day. Third, Romans 8:28 guarantees that He makes something beautiful for His children in every circumstance—even in situations that seem painful and wrong. If our loving Father protects us in this way, we can experience peace in the present and confidence about the future.
In painful times, how do you view God? Especially during hardships and heartbreak, it’s important to remember that He is in control. Focusing on His sovereignty will give you the confidence to carry on. Reread today’s passage, focusing on the power, love, and ability of your heavenly Father.</div>IN TOUCH WITH DR.CHARLES STANLEY-3-3-11-(BRING THE GOSPEL TO THE WORLD)https://iamaruby.com/forum/topics/in-touch-with-drcharles-3742011-03-03T13:30:54.000Z2011-03-03T13:30:54.000ZI Am A Ruby Networkhttps://iamaruby.com/members/iamarubynet<div>March 3
Bring the Gospel to the World
Matthew 28:19-20
When a teacher gives an assignment, good students take it seriously. They do what's required, give their best effort, and complete the work in a timely manner.
Before ascending to heaven, Jesus gave us a commandment—an assignment, really—but too many Christians are half-hearted about completing the task. Christ told His followers to share the good news about salvation and make disciples of all nations. Some believers do dedicate themselves to this work. But many are either too busy or too timid to commit their lives in this way.
If we are to emulate Jesus (John 13:15), then our actions and words should touch people as His did. Recipients of the Savior's love were forever changed. As His followers, we have the Holy Spirit residing within us, which means we have access to the same power that raised Christ from the dead (Rom. 8:11)! So by sharing the gospel, providing encouragement, and offering comfort, we, too, can impact others' lives. Jesus commanded that the good news go out to all nations. Of course, not everyone can move to another country. Some believers hear God's call and go. Others stay, but they're still called to touch those around them. They can also assist overseas missions by financially and prayerfully supporting kingdom efforts on foreign soil.
Our Lord was serious about telling His followers to share the gospel. Consider how you spend your time and your money. Does this indicate obedience to the most important assignment you have ever received? What changes must you make to give Jesus' commandment top priority?</div>IN TOUCH WITH DR.CHARLES STANLEY-3-2-11-(COMMITMENT TO OBEY)https://iamaruby.com/forum/topics/in-touch-with-drcharles-1582011-03-02T13:35:12.000Z2011-03-02T13:35:12.000ZI Am A Ruby Networkhttps://iamaruby.com/members/iamarubynet<div>March 2
A Commitment to Obey
Daniel 1:9-21
Years ago I made a commitment to obey the Lord regardless of the cost. Like everyone else, I have made mistakes, but my determination to follow Christ has remained unchanged. When difficulties occur, such a pledge helps a person to stand firm.
We all will encounter times when there's a direct conflict between God's way and what is being asked of us. Perhaps the boss tells us to misrepresent the company's product to customers. Or a friend may be pressuring us to join her in some risky behavior. Or family members may urge us to lie on their behalf. Saying no could bring loss, rejection, or even the end of a relationship. On the other hand, going along with the request could compromise our Christian witness or break God's commands.
Daniel faced such a dilemma. He and his three friends had a clear choice—to eat food prohibited by Scripture, or to refuse and incur the king's wrath, imprisonment, or even death. Daniel showed great courage when he proposed a different eating plan (Dan. 1:12). His words and actions demonstrated his allegiance to the Lord.
Daniel and his friends were rewarded by God for their faith and commitment (v. 17). Despite their adverse circumstances, all four young men confidently trusted in the Lord's sovereign care for them.
Daniel's choice resulted in royal favor. Jesus' obedience led to the cross and glorification. Paul's trust in Christ resulted in hardship. When we obey, the consequences may vary, but two things are always the same: obedience glorifies our Father and pleases Him. What could be better than that?</div>IN TOUCH WITH DR.CHARLES STANLEY-2-22-11-(THE FOUNDATION OF WISDOM)https://iamaruby.com/forum/topics/in-touch-with-drcharles-3102011-02-22T18:44:14.000Z2011-02-22T18:44:14.000ZI Am A Ruby Networkhttps://iamaruby.com/members/iamarubynet<div>February 22
The Foundation of Wisdom
Proverbs 9:7-12
"The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom" (Prov. 9:10). Initially, the connection between these two concepts may be difficult to grasp: How can fearing God make us wise?
First, we need to understand what it means to fear the Lord. This term is used to describe an awesome reverence for God that moves us to acknowledge Him as the sovereign ruler of heaven and earth, submit to His will, and walk in obedience. The result of such a response will be the acquisition of wisdom.
Those who commit themselves to living for God's purposes rather than their own will gain greater understanding of Him. The Holy Spirit will enable them to see circumstances and people from His divine perspective. This kind of wisdom reaches beyond human perception and gives us discernment to make decisions that fit into the Lord's plans for our lives. Knowing that He always works for our best interests, we are empowered to walk confidently through both good and bad times.
But those who reject God's instructions dishonor Him with their refusal to acknowledge His right to rule their lives. It's foolish to rebel against His authority and think you can ever win. Those who won't fear God will never know real wisdom.
What is your attitude toward the Lord? If you truly reverence Him, you will listen for His directions and heed His warnings. A desire to honor and please Him will motivate you to turn from evil and seek to live in obedience. And the result will be wisdom beyond human understanding.</div>IN TOUCH WITH DR.CHARLES STANLEY-2-17-11-(THE POWER OF THE HOLY SPIRIT)-Week Two Readinghttps://iamaruby.com/forum/topics/in-touch-with-drcharles-912011-02-17T13:39:30.000Z2011-02-17T13:39:30.000ZI Am A Ruby Networkhttps://iamaruby.com/members/iamarubynet<div><p><br /> The Power of the Holy Spirit<br /><br /> Luke 24:44-53<br /><br /> The principle we will explore today is basic but so powerful that it determines whether we experience victory in our lives.<br /><br /> You are probably familiar with the book The Little Engine That Could, in which a small engine keeps repeating the words "I think I can." By using sheer willpower, she pulls an entire train over the mountain. That's a nice children's story, but the truth of the Christian life is very different. In the real world, our efforts and determination often fall short. Only by walking in the power of the Holy Spirit can the godly life be achieved.<br /><br /> Throughout the Old Testament, God's Spirit would temporarily come upon saints for a particular work. However, after Jesus ascended to heaven, He sent the Spirit to dwell permanently within each believer. Consider what this means: If you're a Christian, God is living inside of you, available to help all through life by providing guidance, comfort, and empowerment.<br /><br /> Obedience to Christ is too difficult for anyone relying on his own strength. And discerning what to do in every situation is far too complicated for a fleshly mind. For some reason, though, Christians often try to live life by depending on their own energy and reasoning. Defeat and failure are unavoidable without His power in our lives.<br /><br /> Do you recognize your need for the Lord? Begin each day confessing your dependence upon Him. Ask to be filled with His Spirit so that all you think, do, and say will be an overflow from Him. Then trust Him to work in mighty ways through you. Watch what almighty God can do.</p></div>IN TOUCH WITH DR.CHARLES STANLEY-2-15-11(LOVE'S HIDDEN ENEMY)https://iamaruby.com/forum/topics/in-touch-with-drcharles-242011-02-15T11:21:01.000Z2011-02-15T11:21:01.000ZI Am A Ruby Networkhttps://iamaruby.com/members/iamarubynet<div>February 15
Love's Hidden Enemy
1 Corinthians 13:9-13
The apostle Paul wrote that he once reasoned like a child, but he had now put childish ways behind him (1 Cor. 13:11). He was referring to the spiritual maturity process, whereby a believer's self-centered ideas are replaced by a healthier perspective.
But maturation is just that—a process—so some immature thinking may linger with the Christian. Based on our childhood experiences, we may wrongly believe . . .
• Lie #1—God's love for us depends on how good we are. We act as if our behavior can positively or negatively impact His affection for us. But Scripture tells us that the Lord's love is constant; it never varies.
• Lie #2—Acceptance by others has to do with performance, not who we are. With this mindset, we constantly try to please other people. But we can rest in the truth that God has adopted every believer into His family; we are fully accepted.
• Lie #3—Our security rests in social status, material things, or some other worldly prize. This leads to anxiety and manipulation as we attempt to acquire what we lack. The truth is, we'll experience peace when we realize Christ is our true source of security.
These erroneous ideas represent a "hidden enemy of love," because godly affection can't flourish with immature attitudes. We must replace such beliefs with biblical truth.
Paul calls us to move toward maturity in our thinking and behavior. Clinging to immature ways can interfere with our sense of peace, security, and joy. But knowing the truth about God's acceptance and recognizing that our security is in Him alone will lead to relationships characterized by His love.</div>IN TOUCH WITH DR.CHARLES STANLEY-2-14-11-(BIBLICAL LOVE)https://iamaruby.com/forum/topics/in-touch-with-drcharles-1622011-02-14T13:11:34.000Z2011-02-14T13:11:34.000ZI Am A Ruby Networkhttps://iamaruby.com/members/iamarubynet<div>February 14
Biblical Love
1 Corinthians 13:1-8
In today's passage, Paul talks about love and its preeminence over speech, knowledge, generosity, and self-sacrifice (vv. 1-3). The apostle then describes the nature of biblical love, which is patient, kind, humble, and slow to anger (vv. 4-7).
However, we often struggle as we try to practice this model of unselfish affection. One reason is that the godly expression of caring doesn't come naturally to us. Pure Christian love puts the other person ahead of our own interests, even when our human inclinations clamor to place self first (v. 5).
A second challenge is the temptation to withhold affection until others apologize or change their behavior. We remember their offense long after it has occurred. That's not what our Lord did—He loved us while we were still sinners and forgave us for everything (Rom. 5:8; Luke 23:34).
Furthermore, it is easier to point out someone else's unkindness toward us than to see where we have fallen short. Perhaps a close friend has spoken impatiently to us and we responded with angry words. How easily we can use Scripture to point out her mistake, but how hard to admit our own.
We are called to be loving towards God as well as those around us (Mark 12:30-31). We've received the Holy Spirit, who will help us learn how to care deeply for others.
Experiencing God's affection and demonstrating it to others are to be two of our greatest joys. Take time to memorize the attributes of biblical love, and look for ways to practice them in your relationships. In times of stress, think about the list, and let the power of love transform your response.</div>IN TOUCH WITH DR. CHARLES STANLEY-2-11-11(SURRENDERED TO GOD)https://iamaruby.com/forum/topics/in-touch-with-dr-charles-42011-02-11T12:32:24.000Z2011-02-11T12:32:24.000ZI Am A Ruby Networkhttps://iamaruby.com/members/iamarubynet<div>Surrendered to God
Ephesians 5:15-17
To make us useful servants for His kingdom. God desires to break our self-will—our independent streak that puts "self" first. He doesn't want to break us; He just wants to transform those parts of us that do not reflect Jesus Christ.
Our heavenly Father sees who we really are, so He targets those areas in our life that will hinder Christian growth. Attitudes of pride, jealousy, anger, and unforgiveness need to be dealt with so that His divine love and truth will flow through us to others (Eph. 4:31-32). To promote change, He will bear down on us and maintain pressure until we respond. The Lord desires what is good for us and will do what is necessary to bring transformation in our thought life, attitudes, actions, and priorities.
I remember when our church staff were few in number. We had two live television programs to produce along with the rest of the responsibilities, so we all worked very hard. Eventually, great weariness forced me to stop serving for three months. I wondered what would happen in the congregation during my absence. It turns out the church grew in attendance, giving, and serving without me. The Lord knew that pride in my pastoral position would be a hindrance to future service. So He took steps to change me.
Through that time of brokenness, the Lord taught me a great lesson. Being yielded and obedient to God is what makes my service valuable to Him. Have you been cooperating with His work in your life? Transformation will take place when you surrender to the Father and cooperate with His Spirit.</div>IN TOUCH WITH DR.CHARLES STANLEY-2-10-11-(BEING A GOOD STEWARD)https://iamaruby.com/forum/topics/in-touch-with-drcharles-4762011-02-10T19:58:34.000Z2011-02-10T19:58:34.000ZI Am A Ruby Networkhttps://iamaruby.com/members/iamarubynet<div>February 10
Being a Good Steward
Matthew 25:19-23
Genesis 1 describes the Lord's plan for creating the world. Each day, He accomplished His purposes and declared that what He had made was good.
Our plans are to be based on what God wants us to accomplish. That includes looking at how we handle our finances. The heavenly Father has provided us with our material resources and expects us to manage them wisely. The Bible has many verses about money that help us understand His perspective and guide us in setting financial goals.
Not everyone is inclined toward planning for the future. While some of us look ahead a month or two, others live day to day. Such shortsighted thinking can lead to high credit card debt, overdue bills, and inadequate savings. God wants to protect us from risky situations like these.
Some of us already have a financial plan in place, and it is proceeding well: college education, vacations, and retirement are being covered. We should be careful to keep His priorities in mind. Otherwise, we can become too protective of what we have. Luke 12:16-20 tells of a rich man who built bigger barns for storage instead of sharing what he had—and the Lord called him a fool. We certainly don't want to be foolish in God's eyes.
Seeking God's priorities for our spending, saving, and giving will help us be good stewards who use His money wisely. Having a plan will help us stay on track. Imagine what can be accomplished as more of us follow God's instructions for handling money and invest our resources in His kingdom work.</div>IN TOUCH WITH DR.CHARLES STANLEY-2-9-11(A LIFE OF PEACE)https://iamaruby.com/forum/topics/in-touch-with-drcharles-4632011-02-09T21:30:46.000Z2011-02-09T21:30:46.000ZI Am A Ruby Networkhttps://iamaruby.com/members/iamarubynet<div>February 9
A Life of Peace
Isaiah 26:2-4
Your home offers protection from the elements. So when a storm rolls in, you seek shelter within the safety of those four walls. The same principle applies to life's storms. If we've built a solid house on a foundation of faith, then we've got a haven to run to when dark clouds gather and anxiety threatens to overwhelm us.
Let's suppose I've got a problem that has me fretting. My stomach is in knots. Friends and family try to be understanding, but they're growing weary of me taking my heartache out on them. I'm so focused on this issue that it feels as if I'm carrying a load on my shoulders. God offers a liberating alternative: "Cast your burden upon [Me] and [I] will sustain you" (Ps. 55:22). He does not erase the ills that invade this life. Instead, He shields us from the weight of worry by taking situations into His own hands.
However, the call to a free and peaceful life goes unheeded unless a person has confidence in the Lord. Trust is built through relationship—praying during daily trials and triumphs, seeking biblical guidance for decisions, and testing God's Word to see that it is true and practical for this life. That's how a house of faith is constructed brick by brick on the solid rock of Jesus Christ.
A believer who trusts in God receives the peace that Philippians 4:7 promises. But unshakeable peace isn't instantaneous; it is cultivated through a consistent relationship with the Lord. A lifestyle of dependence upon Him is the key to weathering storms with supernatural calm.</div>IN TOUCH WITH DR.CHARLES STANLEY-2-8-11(ASSURRANCE OF SALVATION)https://iamaruby.com/forum/topics/in-touch-with-drcharles-1672011-02-08T12:22:01.000Z2011-02-08T12:22:01.000ZI Am A Ruby Networkhttps://iamaruby.com/members/iamarubynet<div>Assurance of Salvation
1 John 5:10-13
Many of the people who call In Touch have questions about their salvation. They are frustrated to feel uncertainty about such an important issue. Today's devotion is a three-part salvation assessment. Answer yes to every question, and you can be sure that you are in God's family and destined for an eternity in His presence. Answer no, and you'll know exactly what issue to talk over with your pastor or a spiritual mentor.
1. Do I trust Scripture? Salvation is a simple process: "Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved" (Acts 16:31). Either we trust that Jesus Christ died for the sins of the world (including ours), or we don't (John 3:16).
2. Do I accept the witness of the
Holy Spirit? Anyone who believes in Jesus has the witness dwelling within his or her being. That is, the Spirit testifies to our identity as God's children (Rom. 8:16). It's not about whether we feel saved; God's Spirit offers an abiding conviction that we are.
3. Do I walk like a follower of Jesus? Those who are in Christ are a new creation (2 Cor. 5:17). If we have been transformed, there are going to be changes in our life. Simply put, true believers are creatures who seek the things of God—they desire to read and understand His Word, they want to gather with His people, etc.
Confirmed Christ-followers still sin. Some even backslide for a time. No matter how crooked our walk of faith, the Holy Spirit continues to convict. He cannot allow us to be satisfied with wrongdoing. That tug of guilt over sin is yet another assurance that you have placed yourself in God's grip.</div>IN TOUCH WITH DR.CHARLES STANLEY-2-7-11(WHO OWNS IT ALL?)https://iamaruby.com/forum/topics/in-touch-with-drcharles-3432011-02-07T19:07:00.000Z2011-02-07T19:07:00.000ZI Am A Ruby Networkhttps://iamaruby.com/members/iamarubynet<div>February 7
Who Owns It All?
1 Chronicles 29:10-14
A serious error has made its way into the church. Some Christians think that their beliefs and their wallet belong in separate spheres. The truth is, financial health and obedience to God are inseparable. He owns everything (Hag. 2:8; Ps. 24:1). Cash, possessions, and ways to earn more are gifts from the Lord; we are simply stewards.
A steward oversees the use and care of someone else's riches. A wise steward bases financial decisions upon the owner's rules for using and multiplying material goods. In our case, God has woven financial principles into the fabric of Scripture. Since money touches nearly every aspect of life, it is mentioned 2,300 times in many different contexts. For example, God urged the Israelites to stay faithful to His teachings and to avoid the trap of self-reliance (Deut. 8:18). He reminded them that the power to make wealth resides with Him rather than in their own hands.
The minute a steward presumes that he owns the money he manages, mistakes are made. He stops consulting the Owner and spends as he sees fit. Even in trying to do good, the wayward steward is ruled by his shortsighted perspective rather than God's omnipotent view and gentle guidance. He will suffer the consequences of violating Scripture's financial principles.
Faith and finances are permanently intertwined. The bottom line is that we cannot keep our money out of God's hand, because He holds it all—we simply manage it. And we are to do so in wise and biblical ways. A maturing believer follows the Lord's principles for using and growing wealth.</div>IN TOUCH WITH WITH DR.CHARLES STANLEY-2-4-11(THE EFFECTIVENESS OF GOD'S WAY)https://iamaruby.com/forum/topics/in-touch-with-with-drcharles2011-02-04T11:40:41.000Z2011-02-04T11:40:41.000ZI Am A Ruby Networkhttps://iamaruby.com/members/iamarubynet<div>February 4
The Effectiveness of God's Way
Exodus 3:1-22
Yesterday we observed the ineffectiveness of Moses' attempt to liberate his people from Egyptian slavery, but today we see him given a second chance to do it God's way. If we could learn the lessons Moses learned about the dangers of self-reliance and the advantages of depending on the Lord, we would save ourselves much hardship.
When we choose to cooperate with God and submit to His way, He will do amazing things in and through us. Despite Moses' past failure, the Lord still used him to accomplish the divine plan, but only after he became usable—that is, humbled and broken of self-will. Just consider what God achieved when Moses did it His way.
• He showed what great things He could do through one yielded, dependent person.
• He got more done in less time, and with fewer resources. There was no insurrection or long, drawn-out war—just a dramatic display of His power.
• He proved the superiority of His way by freeing over two million people without the loss of a single Hebrew life.
• He sent impoverished slaves out of bondage with their captors' riches (Ex. 3:21-22).
• He proved to both the Israelites and the Egyptians that He alone is the God of heaven and earth.
• He received all the glory.
Our past failures never prevent God's willingness or ability to use us. In fact, our weakness is a great opportunity for the display of His glory. In our own strength, we are totally ineffective. But when we submit to the Lord's authority, we can experience His victory in whatever He calls us to do.</div>IN TOUCH WITH DR.CHARLES STANLEY-1-31-11-(SALVATION AND LORDSHIP)https://iamaruby.com/forum/topics/in-touch-with-drcharles-3872011-01-31T09:20:49.000Z2011-01-31T09:20:49.000ZI Am A Ruby Networkhttps://iamaruby.com/members/iamarubynet<div>January 31
Salvation and Lordship
Colossians 2:6-10
How can people who have trusted Jesus as their Savior live in rebellion against God through inappropriate attitudes and behaviors? After all, when a person is saved, he's given new life, but sinful thinking and conduct are characteristics of the old life. The truth, however, is that all believers live with this dilemma to one degree or another.
Salvation is a onetime act which God accomplishes in the life of any person who trusts in Christ's payment for his sins. That individual is then guaranteed a place in heaven. But did you know that the Lord wants even more for us than this? The Bible teaches that He predestined us "to become conformed to the image of His Son" (Rom. 8:29-30). That's His ultimate goal. Salvation is the door that opens the way for this process, which is accomplished by the Holy Spirit within us.
This transformation requires submission to Christ's lordship. He paid for us with His blood, and since we are now His, He has the right to rule our lives. In other words, we received Him as Lord at salvation, and now we must walk in Him (v. 6), letting Him have complete control of every area—every decision, act, word, motive, attitude, and thought. If we don't, our spiritual growth will be stunted, and we will yield to a sinful lifestyle.
If you see little progress in your spiritual life, the problem is probably due to an area that you are keeping for yourself. Only in surrendering it to Christ and letting Him be Lord of your entire life will you be enriched beyond measure as He changes your character, perspective, attitudes, and behavior.</div>IN TOUCH WITH DR.CHARLES STANLEY-1-29-11-(LORD OF THE LIVING AND THE DEAD!!)https://iamaruby.com/forum/topics/in-touch-with-drcharles-3262011-01-29T14:12:12.000Z2011-01-29T14:12:12.000ZI Am A Ruby Networkhttps://iamaruby.com/members/iamarubynet<div>January 29/30
Lord of the Living and the Dead
Romans 14:7-12
In the New Testament, Lord is the most frequently used title for Jesus Christ. Although we rarely use this term in our daily lives, we are all quite familiar with another word: boss. That is basically what Lord means—one possessing authority, power, and control. The Word of God describes Jesus as the head of the church, the ruler over all creation, and the Lord of lords and King of kings (Col. 1:15-18; Rev. 3:14; 17:14).
The realm of Christ's reign covers everything that happens in heaven and on the earth. No one—not even those who deny His existence—can be free of His rule or outside His sphere of authority. Although Satan tries to convince us that liberty is found in doing what we want, true freedom is acquired only through submission to Christ's loving lordship.
Even death cannot release anyone from the authority of God's Son. He is Lord of both the living and the dead. All people must decide to either yield or rebel against Him, but they have the opportunity to make this choice only while they are still living. After death, they will acknowledge Christ's lordship through accountability to Him. If we have not bowed the knee to Jesus in life, we will be forced to bend it in the judgment.
Have you submitted to Christ's rule over your life? His authority causes anger or fear in individuals who have not yet yielded to Him, but those who have experienced His lovingkindness, trusted in His goodness, and surrendered to His authority take comfort in knowing Him as the Lord of their lives.</div>IN TOUCH WITH DR.CHARLES STANLEY-1-28-11-(THE MESSAGE THE WORLD NEEDS TO HEAR)https://iamaruby.com/forum/topics/in-touch-with-drcharles-332011-01-28T18:22:16.000Z2011-01-28T18:22:16.000ZI Am A Ruby Networkhttps://iamaruby.com/members/iamarubynet<div>January 28
The Message the World Needs to Hear
Mark 16:15-20
Suppose I asked what the mission of the church is—how would you answer? Although the church accomplishes many tasks, its only message to the world is the gospel of Christ. Everything else we do is merely an extension of that primary goal. The gospel we offer the lost is superior to every worldly philosophy. Never outdated or in need of correction, it is always sufficient to meet humanity's greatest need: reconciliation with the Creator.
Although the message is always the same, methods of making it known are many—including the spoken word, music, printed material, and electronic media. But all these avenues of communication require the individual involvement of God's people. It is every Christian's responsibility to use his or her spiritual gifts, talents, and abilities to help fulfill the Great Commission.
Some Christians think that this role is given only to pastors, missionaries, or other people with an "up-front ministry." But all of us have the responsibility to be involved in whatever way we are able and in whatever opportunity God gives us. Not everybody is called to go abroad as a missionary, but we all can give, pray, and tell friends and family what the Lord has done for us.
When you're truly committed to getting the gospel out, God will reveal what work He is calling you to do. He has a place for every one of us—nobody is insignificant or unusable. The limiting factor is not the Lord's ability to use us but our availability to His call.</div>IN TOUCH WITH DR.CHARLES STANLEY-1-26-11(THE BLESSINGS OF GOD)https://iamaruby.com/forum/topics/in-touch-with-drcharles-92011-01-26T13:35:49.000Z2011-01-26T13:35:49.000ZI Am A Ruby Networkhttps://iamaruby.com/members/iamarubynet<div>January 26
The Blessings of God
Ephesians 1:3-14
Everyone experiences periods of difficulty in life. In such painful times, we may feel as though God is not blessing us. But even then, we are experiencing many of His amazing gifts, despite the fact that they might be escaping our notice.
Below are several examples of blessings that we can enjoy on bright or dark days:
• We are assured that our almighty God chose us before the foundation of the world (v. 4). He predestined us to be adopted as His children (v. 5). We can feel special and wanted because the Sovereign of the universe selected us.
• Jesus provided our salvation through His death and resurrection (v. 7). He redeemed us from sin that causes separation from God and ultimately leads to death. As a result, we receive a brand-new nature and daily forgiveness of iniquities (2 Cor. 5:17; 1 John 1:9).
• The Holy Spirit resides within us. He guides, warns, and fills us so we are never without counsel or comfort. He also seals us so that our eternity is secure (Eph. 1: 13).
• Our Father prepares an inheritance for us that is imperishable (1 Peter 1:4). We may experience momentary troubles, but we can look forward to living eternally in God's presence, where there is joy and no suffering.</div>IN TOUCH WITH DR CHARLES STANLEY-1-25-11-(BLESSING OTHERS!!!)https://iamaruby.com/forum/topics/in-touch-with-dr-charles-32011-01-25T11:42:53.000Z2011-01-25T11:42:53.000ZI Am A Ruby Networkhttps://iamaruby.com/members/iamarubynet<div>January 25
Blessing Others
Psalm 5:11-12
The other day as I was walking through a store, I happened to sneeze, and a gentleman nearby offered the typical
response, "Bless you." This caused me to think about what that common expression actually means—namely, a request for divine favor—and the different ways we can bless others.
First, we can bless people by praying for them, and we should be specific when bringing such petitions to the Lord. General requests like "please bless him" can become rote and devoid of meaning. Besides, supplications with greater detail might bring more identifiable answers. And imagine how others will be encouraged when they see that we cared enough to pray thoughtfully—and God cared enough to fulfill the request.
Second, we can ask God's favor on events and situations. Of course, He will respond only when these have His approval. For example, it is appropriate to request the Lord's presence in a church service, and to ask that He touch those present.
Third, we can bless God. We do this by expressing our praise and thanksgiving for His character and for what He has done (Ps. 104:1). Blessing Him also takes place through our obedience, service, and desire to please Him. When we place Him first in our lives, He is honored.
The Lord provides a vast array of good gifts, and the desire for such benefits is normal and universal. In fact, as we yearn for divine blessings, why not apply the golden rule as a motivation to bless others—including God Himself—through prayer and service?</div>