May 18, 2011 Becoming the Real Me Renee Swope "For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother's womb." Psalm 139:13 (NIV) What do you love to do? If finances were unlimited and failure was unlikely, what would be your dream? The facilitator of our team-building activity asked our small group to answer these questions. I didn't have an answer. So I decided to start praying we'd run out of time before it got to me. But just in case I had to answer, I listened to everyone else describe their dreams, hoping to get ideas. One wanted to be the first female president of the United States. Another friend said she'd always wanted to sing in a Christian rock band. I knew I was in trouble. Here I was, 32-years-old at the time, and I didn't know who I was or what my dreams were. Eventually everyone looked at me for a response. I stumbled over my words. Then I finally admitted I didn't really know what I loved to do. I didn't have a dream. I'd never taken time to think about or answer those kinds of questions. Instead, I had always tried to be who others wanted or needed me to be. But honestly, I wasn't very good at it. I often had this uneasy feeling in my heart and a sense of just not being happy. And I was a constant candidate for burn out. I wasn't living out the truth held in our key verse today: "[God] created my inmost being; [He] knit me together in my mother's womb." (Psalm 139:13, NIV) I was not designed to be who others expected me to be, or even wanted me to be. I was created to become all that God planned for me to be. But I was lost in the process of my becoming. After I fumbled around looking for an answer during our team-building time, our facilitator encouraged me to ask God what His dreams were for my life. I took her advice and started the process of becoming the "real me" who had gotten buried in the busyness of life and people pleasing. As I read books that talked about discovering our passions, gifts and personality traits, I started to identify what I liked. I recognized strengths that came natural for me, and learned what I needed emotionally to encourage my heart. For the first time, I realized there was an important reason I was who I was — with my passionate preferences and mixed bag of emotions. Instead of wanting to be like women I knew and admired, I sensed God wanted to use the unique way He made me. Isn't it easy to neglect ourselves to meet the needs of everyone around us, and call it self-sacrifice? It sounds godly. But in doing so we risk shutting down a place in our soul where God's dreams and gifts are waiting to be revealed. So, how well do you know the real you? Have you ever taken time to think about what you like to do? What would make your heart come alive if you had the confidence and resources to do it? Although it might feel self-seeking, it's actually God-seeking to take time to get to know the woman He created you to be. Remember God had a plan in mind when He made you. When you surrender your unique passions and personality to Him, God will use them to guide you towards His dreams for your life. Lord, I want to know the woman You had in mind when You created me. I don't want to grow old and never know Your purpose for my life. Show me Your dreams for me so I can offer what You want to give to those around me. In Jesus' Name, Amen.

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  • There was a time in my life that I desired to be like Dr. Byumn because she is a very powerful woman and so many enjoyed the way she brought the Word of God. When I started to preach and teach I realized that the anointing she has was for her and what she experienced. The anointing that God placed upon my life was the way He wanted me to bring forth His Word. I began to develop the way God would have me to preach, how the Holy Spirit leads me to teach the Word of God and how I presented to the people. So many times we get caught up by someone else ways that we compare out to their and most of the time we end up wanting to mimic the other person. God made us fearfully and wonderfully meaning we are unique in our own way created by God. God wants to use that uniqueness to bring forth  His Word in the way that you will reach people in a way that they will understand. I realized that I can be just as powerful as she is and deliver the Word of God just as convincing as she can it's just that it is coming from a different person. That we all have a part in the Kingdom one body with many members.

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